22: Feeling 82 Instead


 

Feeling 22 With 22 Symptoms (Fibromyalgia Version)

Taylor Swift’s 22 is the ultimate anthem of youth, freedom, and boundless energy — everything I once imagined for September birthdays. But living with fibromyalgia, my version of 22 comes with a twist: sometimes it feels more like 82. And honestly? That’s okay.


The song is all about celebrating life, letting loose, and embracing joy. For me, those celebrations are quieter, slower, and often involve a heating pad or cozy blanket. While my friends might dance all night or go on spontaneous adventures, my September birthday might include sipping tea, taking small walks, and laughing at my own limitations. It’s less about doing everything and more about enjoying what I can do.


The humor comes naturally. I sing along with Taylor, imagining myself at 22 with endless energy — and then glance at my body and think, “Yeah… maybe 82 is more accurate today.” But that’s part of the charm. Fibromyalgia has taught me to find joy in little victories: managing a short walk without pain flaring, reading a book in one sitting, or even eating my favorite birthday treat without guilt.


22 is also a reminder that age, energy, and life experiences are all relative. My body might not cooperate like it did when I was younger, but my spirit is resilient, my humor intact, and my heart full of love for the life I do have. And maybe that’s even more valuable than endless energy.


So, this September, I celebrate my birthday with a wink at Taylor Swift, a cozy blanket, and a heating pad by my side. I might feel 82 instead of 22, but I’m still dancing in my own way — slowly, humorously, and fully embracing the life I live. Because in the end, joy isn’t about age or energy. It’s about perspective, laughter, and finding your own rhythm, no matter what fibromyalgia throws your way.

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